Compromises don’t work

As a resolution for people with relationship problems I have heard that “compromise is the key to a successful relationship” but that is CRAP. At first glance compromise doesn’t seem like such a bad idea; both parties each sacrifice a little something for the greater good. But when you think about it, that means both parties lose. Additionally, the “little something” that is given up is something that the person enjoys or has some importance to them.  Ultimately, each side will grow a resentment for the other because of what they had to give up and eventually everything ends up worse.